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Before we present this month’s topic on Personal Energy and
Engagement, we have an introduction to make. After supporting all
of the many Worklife initiatives and serving as Program Developer
for several years, Laura Butler has stepped in to lead our Life
Coaching practice. She brings not only her considerable training
in addressing women’s issues, but also lots of experience
in consulting for both the Educational and Medical Office Management
fields. She will focus on work/life integration, relationships and
career fulfillment as well as life transitions and leadership for
women in the workplace. Welcome Laura!
Our topic this month is one of growing interest and concern in
all of our coaching assignments. Personal Energy is at the core
of performance of any kind – as an athlete, an actor, writer,
leader, receptionist, butcher, baker or candlestick maker. It especially
affects how others perceive us and determines the quality of how
we project ourselves in any environment.
Engagement serves as a measure of connection and commitment affecting
both the quality of our activities as well as our sense of fulfillment.
Whether we choose to invest our energy or it is invested for us,
the return on that investment is in direct proportion to how much
of ourselves we commit to it.
This topic is also referred to as “heart”. We use terms
like “half-hearted, his heart’s not in it, heartfelt
and whole-heartedness” to describe levels of engagement, commitment
and energy. See Laura’s article on “What’s your
HQ” (heart quotient)?
Engagement: The Key is Energy, Not Time
Everyone is in a hurry these days, juggling work, family, and play like
so many balls in the air. The “ability to multitask”
is listed at the top of every job description and most people pride
themselves on it. E-mail, cell phones, desktops, laptops and now
“thumb tops” keep us more in touch than we have ever
been in history. About the only thing that seems to be slowing us
down is traffic, and then we gratefully use even that time to catch
up on phone calls and messages.
It seems that the more timesaving devices we have at our disposal,
the more we have to cram in extra tasks, more contacts, and more
meetings. In the name of greater efficiency, we have never been
more interconnected technologically but, in a grand paradox, never
felt more disconnected emotionally and psychologically. Somehow,
if only there were more time, all of our work and life challenges
could be accomplished.
Apparently, there is a time deficit. Even if our time is managed
more efficiently, there is still never enough of it in a 24-hour
day. Cutting back on sleep, skipping meals and exercise, and attending
fewer meetings don’t help because time isn’t really
the key issue in the first place.
Energy is the Key
The issue isn’t time—or time management. It’s
energy focus. And this requires us to rethink much of what we’ve
believed about organizing our work and lives. Managing time efficiently
is no guarantee that we’ll bring sufficient energy to whatever
it is we’re doing. We need to learn two new concepts:
- Energy, not time, is the fundamental currency of performance.
- Success, health, and happiness are results of the skillful focusing
of energy.
According to Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz in their recent book,
The Power of Full Engagement
(Free Press, 2003), the skillful management
of energy—individually and organizationally—is the key
to high performance and personal renewal. Their assertion is that
to be fully engaged in our lives, we must be physically energized,
emotionally connected, mentally focused, and spiritually aligned
with a purpose meaningful to us.
Everything we do requires energy. Without the right type, quantity
and quality of energy, any activity we undertake will eventually
be compromised. Anger, fatigue, confusion and forgetfulness result
from inattention to our need for an energy re-charge. Personal energy
gets taken for granted, as if we have unlimited amounts. In reality,
personal energy requires strategies for recovery and renewal.
When you think about it, the ultimate measure of
our lives is neither about time on the planet nor how much gets
done, but rather it is in the quality of our moments. Memorable
moments, though sometimes short, are the things we remember and
that can actually re-energize us long after they have occurred.
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| Laura Butler is a personal performance and life fulfillment
specialist with experience in health care, education, customer
service and individual coaching.
As Director of Program Development for Worklife Performance
Consulting, Laura has designed and delivered a number of personal
development and performance enhancing seminars. Her extensive
experience in the growing field of emotional intelligence
has earned her a reputation for insight, creativity and inspiration.
Her many clients have included individuals in career transition
and life change, as well as schools and community organizations
in the midst of growth and reform. Laura is dedicated to empowerment
using an "inside out" approach.
“WHAT’S YOUR HQ”?
It’s a pleasure to be leading our Life Coaching practice
and to be introduced to all of you along with our second issue
and its focus on the “heart” or “HQ”
of engagement. My research and work with the concepts of emotional
intelligence has shown me the power in leading and living
with heart.
Just as our featured authors, Loehr and Schwartz, have outlined
four principles for Energy Management, I follow four guiding
principles for “HQ” Management by envisioning
an internal compass. I look North on my internal compass and
ask “What is my personal mission”? If my personal
mission is clear, my heart can proceed in the most important
direction. As I look East I ask “Am I being accountable
for my actions”? By living a life of personal integrity,
my heart can be engaged and answer with the truth. Then I
look to the South and I ask, “Am I empowering others”?
My heart tells me I’m doing the right thing when I can
help another person fulfill their dreams. Finally, turning
toward the West, “Do I have an open and unbiased view”?
The answer from my heart will be yes if I can respect each
person’s unique strengths and attitudes even when they
are different from my own. My HQ is Mission, Integrity, Service
and Respect, and I know that if I follow these, my heart will
follow as well.
Check in with your own internal compass and ask, “What’s
my HQ”? What direction are you working on and is your
heart engaged? I look forward to hearing about your journey.
Email me at laurabutler@worklifeonline.com.
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Engagement as Core Strategy
Significant research by the Gallup Organization has found that
less than 30 percent of employed people are fully engaged at work.
Over half are not engaged, and 17 percent are actively disengaged.
That means that over two-thirds of people at work are not enthusiastic
about what they are doing. While the causes may be varied, it is
clear that lack of engagement leads to poor performance, absenteeism
and unwanted attrition. As the War for Talent grows, talent engagement
is becoming one of the core strategies of enlightened companies.
In the same way, lack of engagement creates problems in relationships,
families, schools and communities.
Four Principles for Energy Management
Here are four important principles put forth by Loehr and Schwartz
in their book:
PRINCIPLE 1: Full
engagement requires drawing on four separate but related sources
of energy: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual.
PRINCIPLE 2: Because
energy capacity diminishes with both overuse and under-use, we must
balance energy expenditure with intermittent energy renewal.
PRINCIPLE 3: To build
capacity, we must push beyond our normal limits, training
in the same systematic way elite athletes do.
PRINCIPLE 4: Positive
energy rituals—highly specific routines for managing and
renewing energy—are the key to full engagement and sustained
high performance.
It becomes evident through research and other written work that
the key to more fully engaged lives and careers, leading to more
physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health and happiness—is
in the focusing and renewing of our personal energy.
Forget time—we all have the same 24/7. But we can learn to
improve the quality of our energy. There are actual steps we can
take to increase our energy capacity in all four domains: physical,
emotional, mental, and spiritual.
The Importance of Positive Ritual
Attaining full engagement in work and life involves having positive,
personalized habits or rituals that help you connect with your “inner
battery”. These rituals may also include interests or passions
that feed your engagement and actually grow stronger as you practice
them. Such rituals help us to conserve and create energy rather
than deplete it and may include writing in a journal, meditating,
engaging in a regular workouts or sports, reading inspirational
books, or participating in the creative arts. They help connect
you to your four centers of energy focus. Together, they can help
you to manage your energy more effectively and achieve higher performance.
In our coaching practice we help you become aware of the ways in
which you expend energy and how you can improve your ability to
renew it. In some cases, you may need to stretch yourself to expand
your capacities. In others, you may need to build in renewal and
recovery rituals. Those of you that have used Worklife services
in the past have participated in many of our assessment tools, especially
the Birkman. Check your results and see how much you regularly include
activities that engage your interests as well as practices that
re-charge your needs. We will shortly have an online library of
suggestions for you on our website www.worklifeonline.com under
the e-learning tab. We also are now offering our new “Wheel
of Life” Worklife Balance and Integration Assessment to help
you in this growing area of challenge and concern.
Do yourself a favor and turn off all of your electronic equipment
and go do something you love.
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